I am one of those mums who said having kids wouldn’t change me or my life. And there seems to be a lot of pre-parents who say the same thing. Because it seems like a reassuring thing to tell yourself shortly after you’ve peed on a stick and got two lines. And I suspect many said it for the two main reasons I did. Firstly, I felt a little bit scared and a little bit overwhelmed about the reality of how much my life might actually change. And secondly, I quite liked my life and despite really ...